postscript2 Senior Member
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Tuesday January 06, 2009 6:19 PM
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Hi Hardluck:
I commend you for your resilience and patience and fortitude to stay afloat in a mess of a system! Great post... I think we all want to be 100% again, but the truth is we have to live with the cards that are dealt us. This isn't my first injury and I'm a C/A of over 20 years. Talk about being jerked around... I think I had it worse at times, because I know the system.
None the less, I feel for you from the bottom of my heart. I can't do some of the simplest of things and it's quite frustrating to say the least! Not being able to drive feels like it took 1/2 of my life away... We all have our own coping skills and yes, you are correct that some of the most frivilous of suits in the civil arena will never, never reach 1/2 or 1/4 the level of compensation in w/c.
I don't know what your injuries entail, but you know--technology gets better every day. Spinal procedures amongst many others have come a long way, baby! Arthroscopic sx's are a miracle considering what they used to be. I'm facing my 10th sx (not all w/c) and I'm not looking forward to it.
Perhaps you may want to consider leaving your FMC open, in hopes of newer technology and that someday, there will be a better remedy for that pain that plagues you! I know what you mean about having to lay down all the time. For me it's very depressing, but it's the only time that "I," personally, am somewhat comfortable.
Maybe you can switch PTP's in the future???
At any rate take care, and hold on to what is dear to you... At least your grandchild is still young enough that they must enjoy you immensely! Children can truly light up your life--they don't see your disability, esp. at this age of 1 year. I'm not trying to write a dissertation here, just hopefully offer you some comfort and insight as to what, as Steve said, 1000's of "us" are going through. "Steve" is also correct that any given one of us could have been injured at home or otherwise. I think the difference is that w/c is a very, very slow process, thus adding "insult to injury..." I've spoken to hundreds of I/W's, if not in the thousands and that is why I enjoyed my job so much. I don't even know if I can return to my former job either.
My pain meds get in the way of my memory, so I can't quote you some of the most powerful things I've read verbatim, but I remember one that goes something like this:
"Therefore by the grace of God go I..." When I see someone in a wheelchair or totally incapacitated, it sort of grounds me.......
At any rate, best wishes for you and hopefully you will obtain some resolution to your claim AND sooner than later!
Sincerely, LCS
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